形单影只 I am lonely
求个陪伴 Hope some will come, stay with me
呼吸同一片空气 Breathe together
沐浴同一片阳光 Enjoy sunshine together
有美食可共享 Enjoy the food together
有烦闷可倾吐 Enjoy chatting and get rid of the accumulated crap in your heart
保持适当距离 Keep appropriate distance
各自保留空间 Have your own privacy
尊重个性 Respect
求同存异 Generosity
欣赏魅力 Appreciation
所以过于黑白分明的,个性特强的,老子第一的,绝对真理的,喜欢闹政治宗教派别的,喜欢争个子午卯酉的,都不是太适合求偶的状态。
So those who have no gray zone may feel frustrated even they step into a marriage. We need happy life, not only the marriage in a shape.
中庸之道,亦适用于此也。
The Doctrine of the Mean, is the way to keep balance of happy life.